I hate when someone says that life sucks, that this world is horrible and blah blah blah I can go so on and on and on about all that complaints.
Okay, someone may break your heart and life’s not easy. You can feel alone. Chasing dreams it’s really hard, and sometimes it’s even hard to have dreams, but life’s not bullshit, believe me.
You think that you are ugly and you feel so miserable because people just criticize you. That’s their opinion, not yours. This opinion is not going to define your life if you don’t want to.
Think for just one minute, do you have a bed to sleep? Food to eat? Do you have people who love you back?
If you have said “Yes” to the three questions, forget about the “but…”. You must be happy, not because you deserve it, not because it’s better for you. Be happy because you can. You are live, that’s all you need to know.
There are lots of people out there struggling, fighting to survive. Trying to put shit aside and walk over all their problems. And they are trying the best they can to be happy, because they want to. So please stop worrying about little things. Stop making a mountain out of a molehill.
I know this can sound annoying, but you have to realise that life is worth it. You are here for one reason, and life is not horrible. Sometimes it is a bit sad, but there are still lots of wonderful things, like making other people smile. Being sad is not something you have to be. It’s an option. Yes, you can’t always be happy, but being sad or depressed is not something good. It is not something you have to follow as a trend.
Bad things happen to everybody, but that’s an important thing you have to learn. People are not made of rock, they are fragile, and we constantly hurt each other. But we also love with all our heart. Miracles happen as well. And once in a while, you find someone who is genuinely good.
Life is an adventure. Each day is different, and yet nothing seems to change. If you wanna change something, begin by changing yourself, your point of view of the world. Begin by looking for happiness. Begin by believing that this world is a beautiful place, complicated and amazing. Life can be a million things and you can’t really define it, but I know something that life is not: crap. So stop saying it is.
“Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride in that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place”.